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Relationship Coaching

What is Relationship Coaching?

Relationship coaching is a structured, goal-oriented approach for helping couples to develop new skills 

helping couples  develop new skills and

The relationship checkup combines an online assessment based on over 40 years of research with Dr. Bordieri's clinical expertise to quickly identify the strengths and challenges of your relationship and guide you in developing new strategies to enhance your relationship, improve communication, and build off existing strengths.  

The Relationship Checkup is an online assessment tool based on 40 years of research
research-based assessment tool for therapists to use with couples as a method for learning the strengths and challenges of a relationship, and to determine a treatment plan.

The online assessment is based on over 40 years of research by Dr. John Gottman – one of the leading researchers in the couple’s therapy field.  It includes questions about friendship, intimacy, how you manage emotions and conflict, how you share your values and goals, and what gives meaning to your lives.  The online assessment typically takes 45 to 90 minutes, depending on how fast you progress through the questions.  The questionnaire is completely confidential, fully HIPAA compliant, and only Dr. Bordieri will have access to your results -you and your partner will not see or have access to each other’s responses. 

Once you complete the assessment Dr. Bordieri will review the results and provide you with personalized feedback.  In your feedback session, Dr. Bordieri will walk you through your strengths and areas for growth and to help you and your partner become "relationship masters."   You will also receive structured activities and resources to strengthen your communication and the quality of your relationship.  Relationship coaching sessions are available, with discounted rates for prepaid packages.  

The Relationship Checkup Includes:

  1. The online relationship checkup questionnaire and Dr. Bordieri's analysis of your results
  2. A 75-minute couple's session to review your results and get personalized feedback on strengths, areas for growth, recommendations, and structured activities to strengthen the quality of your relationship.

The fee for the relationship checkup is based on whether you schedule your feedback session during:
  • Online office hours $335 (weekdays at or before 5:30pm)
  • Brooklyn office hours $385 (Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays, and weekdays at or after 6:30pm)

Relationship Coaching

Relationship coaching sessions are structured around the results of your Relationship Checkup.  These 25-minute coaching sessions progressively build off one another to create a customized relationship enhancement program for you and your partner.  Each session focuses on a specific area of relationship enhancement and includes follow-up homework activities to help you and your partner practice new skills and build healthy relationship habits. 

Coaching sessions can be scheduled individually or as part of a prepaid package with discounted rates based on the number of coaching sessions and whether sessions are scheduled during online or Brooklyn office hours.


The relationship checkup is way to assess the health of your relationship, similar to an annual physical.  It is a valuable resource for both couples in distress and  couples looking to enhance the quality of their relationship & prevent future distress.


View to learn more about the research that theory behind The Relationship Checkup


Coaching Fees and Packages

Coaching During Brooklyn Office Hours:
  • Single Coaching Session $110
  • 3 Coaching Session Package $295
  • 6 Coaching Session Package $565
Coaching During Online Office Hours:
  • Single Coaching Session $95
  • 3 Coaching Session Package: $255
  • 6 Coaching Session Package: $485

How does it work?

1. Sign-Up & Schedule your Individual Partner Assessmen

2. Complete the online assessment
After your appointment request is confirmed you and your partner will each receive an email invitation to join The Gottman Relationship Checkup.  You and your partner will each create individual, separate profiles so that you can complete your own questionnaire at your own convenience - stop and start at any time. Stop and start at any time.  To preserve the integrity and accuracy of the assessment, you are encouraged not to share your re­sponses with each other or log in to your partner’s account

4. Attend your extended couple's session
Get your results, suggested activities, and suggestions for strengthening your relationship!

I welcome you to schedule a free consultation to explore how therapy might benefit you. 
Therapy is extremely personal, so it is important that you feel comfortable with the therapist you choose.  Consultations offer you the opportunity to ask questions and get a sense of who I am and how I work with clients to help you decide if the fit feels right.
Schedule an Appointment or Consultation with Dr. Bordieri
If you don't see a time that works for you, contact Dr. Bordieri directly to schedule your consultation: Dr.Bordieri@familyandcoupletherapy.com or 619-808-8509.
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  • Home
  • Couples
    • Online Hold Me Tight Workshop
    • Private Couple's Intensive Programs
    • Online Premarital Counseling Program
    • Couples with a Bipolar Diagnosed Partner
    • Relationship Coaching for Couples >
      • Gottman Relationship Checkup >
        • John Gottman - Making Marriage Work
    • Discernment Counseling
  • Schedule
  • Services
    • Families
    • Couples
    • Individuals
    • Relationship Coaching
  • About Dr. Bordieri
    • Inclusion Statement
  • For Therapists
    • Online Therapy Trainings for Therapists
    • Therapist Resources - Online Therapy