Family and Couple Therapy
  • Home
  • Couples
    • Online Hold Me Tight Workshop >
      • Online Hold Me Tight Mini Package
      • 10-Hour Private Hold Me Tight Intensive
    • Private Couple's Intensive Programs
    • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
      • EFT Cycle Tracking, De-Escalation, & Repair Mini Series
      • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop >
        • VIDEO: EFT Negative Cycle Tracking
      • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict
      • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Revisiting & Repairing Conflict
      • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict
      • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies
      • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy
      • Core Relationship Skills Series: Coaching Options
    • Premarital Counseling Program
    • Relationship Coaching for Couples >
      • Gottman Relationship Checkup >
        • Gottman Relationship Checkup Package
        • John Gottman - Making Marriage Work
    • Assessments for Couples
    • Discernment Counseling
  • Schedule
    • New Clients
    • Current Clients
    • Events Calendar
  • Services
    • Family Therapy
    • Couple's Therapy
    • Individual Therapy
    • Groups >
      • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
        • EFT Cycle Tracking, de-escalation, & repair mini series
        • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop
        • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop
        • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop
        • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop
        • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop
        • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop
      • Online Hold Me Tight Group
    • Relationship Coaching
  • About Dr. Bordieri
  • Inclusion Statement
  • Recommended Reading

Couple's Therapy

We help couples to understand and
exit negative patterns that keep them stuck in conflict and isolation, and develop new ways of relating.
Schedule An Appointment
Schedule Your Free Consultation

Reduce conflict and rekindle the flame of connection in your relationship.

We all long to feel loved and accepted by our partners with the confidence of knowing they will be there to nurture and comfort us in times of distress.  All couples will inevitably face challenges in their relationship, but when partners are securely connected they are better prepared to cope with conflict and manage stress in and outside of the relationship. 

Couple's who feel disconnected from their partner or trapped in unending cycles of conflict and misunderstandings experience intense despair and feelings of isolation in their relationship.  Couples experiencing relationship distress, often wait years before seeking help through couple's therapy.  Over time, negative cycles of interaction become entrenched, resentment builds, and the emotional distance between partners grows when problems are not dealt with. 

Couple's therapy can offer you and your partner the opportunity to avoid years of pain while you wait for problems to resolve naturally.  Therapy can also help you and your partner to understand and escape negative patterns of conflict that keep both locked in distress and isolation. 

As Emotionally Focused Therapist with advanced training, Dr. Bordieri will collaborate with you to gain insight into what you truly need from one another.  These unmet needs are what fuels reactive behaviors and cycles of negative conflict.  By learning to recognize these habitual patters of reacting you will be empowered to exit these negative conflict cycles and rebuild the emotional connection in your relationship.  Research has consistently shown that emotionally focused therapy (EFT) helps 70-75% of couples move from distress to recovery with 90% reporting significant improvements in their relationship.  Click below to download a research summary on the effectiveness of EFT.

Dr. Bordieri also integrates communication and relationship enhancement skills into all couple's services based on research of John Gottman as a supplement to the wisdom of the EFT approach.  Structured Assessments and Private Intensive Packages,
Group Intensives, Group Workshops, and Structured Assessments are also available for couples who wish to focus on improving communication and relationship enhancement, including the EFT Communication Assessment based on the EFT approach and the Gottman Relationship Checkup Package. 

For partners questioning whether to stay in their relationship Dr. Bordieri also offers Discernment Counseling, to help partner gain greater clarity and confidence in making decisions about the future of their relationship.  Discernment counseling can also be a useful tool to help partners decide if couple's therapy might help to address the problems in their relationship.

All clinicians in our practice can provide couple's therapy to those located New York State.  In addition, Dr. Bordieri is also licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist in California, New Jersey, and is a registered telehealth provider in Florida.  Couples who do not live in one these 4 states might be candidates for Relationship Coaching with Dr. Bordieri.  Psychoeducational services, including Structured Assessments and Private Intensive Packages are available to all couples, regardless of physical location.  Schedule a FREE consultation to learn more about which services are right for you and your partner.

EFT Research Summary
File Size: 308 kb
File Type: pdf
Download File

Dr. Bordieri can provide therapy services to those located in New York, New Jersey, California, and Florida.  If you are located in a different state, you can schedule a consultation to see if you are a candidate for Relationship Coaching with Dr. Bordieri.

We welcome you to schedule a free consultation to explore how therapy might benefit you. 
Therapy is extremely personal, so it is important that you feel comfortable with the therapist you choose.  Consultations offer you the opportunity to ask questions and get a sense of who we are and how we work with clients to help you decide if the fit feels right.
Schedule an Appointment or Consultation
If you don't see a time that works for you, contact Dr. Bordieri directly to schedule your consultation, intake or next therapy session: [email protected] or 619-808-8509.
If you are having difficulty finding a time with one of our other practitioners you can email info@familyandcoupletherapy.com
Therapists interested in joining the practice can contact us at [email protected]
Call or Text
Email

Home

Couples

Schedule

Families

Therapists

  • Home
  • Couples
    • Online Hold Me Tight Workshop >
      • Online Hold Me Tight Mini Package
      • 10-Hour Private Hold Me Tight Intensive
    • Private Couple's Intensive Programs
    • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
      • EFT Cycle Tracking, De-Escalation, & Repair Mini Series
      • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop >
        • VIDEO: EFT Negative Cycle Tracking
      • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict
      • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Revisiting & Repairing Conflict
      • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict
      • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies
      • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy
      • Core Relationship Skills Series: Coaching Options
    • Premarital Counseling Program
    • Relationship Coaching for Couples >
      • Gottman Relationship Checkup >
        • Gottman Relationship Checkup Package
        • John Gottman - Making Marriage Work
    • Assessments for Couples
    • Discernment Counseling
  • Schedule
    • New Clients
    • Current Clients
    • Events Calendar
  • Services
    • Family Therapy
    • Couple's Therapy
    • Individual Therapy
    • Groups >
      • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
        • EFT Cycle Tracking, de-escalation, & repair mini series
        • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop
        • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop
        • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop
        • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop
        • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop
        • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop
      • Online Hold Me Tight Group
    • Relationship Coaching
  • About Dr. Bordieri
  • Inclusion Statement
  • Recommended Reading