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        • VIDEO: EFT Negative Cycle Tracking
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        • VIDEO: Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict
      • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Revisiting & Repairing Conflict
      • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict
      • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies
      • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy
      • Core Relationship Skills Series: Coaching Options
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        • John Gottman - Making Marriage Work
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        • EFT Cycle Tracking, de-escalation, & repair mini series
        • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop
        • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop
        • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop
        • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop
        • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop
        • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop
      • Online Hold Me Tight Group
    • Relationship Coaching
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What is the Relationship Checkup?

The Gottman Relationship Checkup is a research-based online assessment based on over 40 years of research by Dr. John Gottman – one of the leading researchers in the couple’s therapy field.  The online assessment includes questions about friendship, intimacy, how you manage emotions and conflict, how you share your values and goals, and what gives meaning to your lives.  The Relationship Checkup is designed to quickly identify the strengths and challenges in your relationship to be targeted in treatment to help you and your partner develop new strategies to enhance your relationship, improve communication, and build off your existing strengths.
The assessment takes approximately 45 to 60 minutes, depending on how fast you progress through the questions.  The questionnaire is completely confidential, fully HIPAA compliant, and only Dr. Bordieri will have access to your results -you and your partner will not see or have access to each other’s responses. 

Once you complete the assessment Dr. Bordieri will review the results and provide you with personalized feedback based on your responses and your individual sessions.  In your feedback session Dr. Bordieri will walk you through your strengths and areas for growth and help you to benefit from Dr. John Gottman's research and strive to become "relationship masters."   You will also receive structured activities and resources to strengthen your communication and the quality of your relationship.

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The relationship checkup is way to assess the health of your relationship, similar to an annual physical. 


View to learn more about Dr. Gottman's Research

Dr. Bordieri can provide therapy services to those located in New York, New Jersey, California, and Florida.  If you are located in a different state, you can schedule a consultation to see if you are a candidate for Relationship Coaching with Dr. Bordieri.

We welcome you to schedule a free consultation to explore how therapy might benefit you. 
Therapy is extremely personal, so it is important that you feel comfortable with the therapist you choose.  Consultations offer you the opportunity to ask questions and get a sense of who we are and how we work with clients to help you decide if the fit feels right.
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If you don't see a time that works for you, contact Dr. Bordieri directly to schedule your consultation, intake or next therapy session: [email protected] or 619-808-8509.
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  • Home
  • Couples
    • Online Hold Me Tight Workshop >
      • Online Hold Me Tight Mini Package
      • 10-Hour Private Hold Me Tight Intensive
    • Private Couple's Intensive Programs
    • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
      • EFT Cycle Tracking, De-Escalation, & Repair Mini Series
      • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop >
        • VIDEO: EFT Negative Cycle Tracking
      • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict
      • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Revisiting & Repairing Conflict
      • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict
      • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies
      • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop >
        • VIDEO: Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy
      • Core Relationship Skills Series: Coaching Options
    • Premarital Counseling Program
    • Relationship Coaching for Couples >
      • Gottman Relationship Checkup >
        • Gottman Relationship Checkup Package
        • John Gottman - Making Marriage Work
    • Assessments for Couples
    • Discernment Counseling
  • Schedule
    • New Clients
    • Current Clients
    • Events Calendar
  • Services
    • Family Therapy
    • Couple's Therapy
    • Individual Therapy
    • Groups >
      • Core Relationship Skills Workshop Series >
        • EFT Cycle Tracking, de-escalation, & repair mini series
        • EFT Negative Cycle Tracking Workshop
        • Strategies for De-Escalating Conflict Workshop
        • Revisiting & Repairing Conflict Workshop
        • Compromise & Getting Unstuck from Recurring Conflict Workshop
        • Building Trust, Forgiveness & Effective Apologies Workshop
        • Enhancing Emotional, Physical & Sexual Intimacy Workshop
      • Online Hold Me Tight Group
    • Relationship Coaching
  • About Dr. Bordieri
  • Inclusion Statement
  • Recommended Reading